Thank you all for your replies, I will be taking your advice on board. I appreciate the advice. I may come across as in denial but is it abuse if I start the argument? I don’t do it intentionally. He says I push him that far, and I do feel responsible sometimes. I have never hit him back. We’re both argumentive. I’m just confused at the moment. It all started after pregnancy, before then, we was great. I think I just needed to get this off my chest as I haven’t told anyone and I’ve got no one to talk to about this really.