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Also we have an informal parental agreement there’s no court order in place. The child resides with me and he has access every other weekend, he doesn’t live locally

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I’m the resident parent.
I have not read that book but I will look at getting that.
I’ve had counselling over the years to try and help me deal with his behaviour but nothing seems to work for me. 🙁 I can’t get rid of the anxiety I feel when I see him or get any kind of communication from him.I hadn’t thought of getting a different phone but that’s a good idea 👍

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I haven’t spoken to the Police, I have considered it though. I never knew if they would listen or take it seriously 😐
The pick up points are pre agreed (detail removed by Moderator) in advance, he insists on having our (detail removed by Moderator) agreed in advance. If either myself or child wants to make changes he refuses.
I may go back to my local woman’s aid again as I really feel I need support now more than ever before. I want his threats to stop now. 🙁

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Also I had a meeting with the women’s aid solicitor last year when he was threatening me with court and they told me it could just be his personality 😔 I wasn’t expecting that and now it’s put me off seeking more advice

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Thank you for your reply, I don’t have anyone that could use as a 3rd party, my parents are elderly and I can’t put that on them 🙁 I don’t think I’d qualify for legal aid as I work full time.
I’m scared how he will react if I go to CSM, he won’t be happy and I’ll no doubt get lots of verbal abuse from him. I feel so stuck 😔

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