Tough Cookie

[Tough Cookie]

Hello Ladies – ahh lovely Head Cook – we did have some fun! I am still the nominated driver of my own bus 🙂

What a lovely supportive pack we were to each other. Here’s to having nothing at all to do with our bullying exes 🙂 Go us!

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Hello Mixed up mum and Miss giggypants…great names!

I would love to know how Eliza is….and Flowerchild? Is she still on here? And Karma? Very wise ladies all of them.

Miss Giddypants….quite right…keep your distance! Who needs a man who stops talking you you when you say something he doesn’t like?!

I am now living the life of a nun. Freedom was very hard won for me – I am hanging onto it!

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Ahhh how lovely! I remember you all and yes you are right – I dearly love a laugh. I do think looking for the ridiculousness in the things they do and laughing at them takes a little bit of their power away.

I have been in no contact for two years thanks to a restraining order and at first it was like stepping off a roller coaster and I felt like I was still moving and my legs were all wobbly but in time I have grown to love my drama free life. I am extremely lucky (if accidentally being conned into marrying a mind bending control freak posing a life partner can be said to ever be lucky..) because he failed to attend the last court appearance for contact and so the children don’t see him (I suspect he had linked up with Tough Cookie Mark 2 by then and didn’t want any pesky kids turning up and knocking his great romance of course with anything inconvenient like the truth…) anyway…whatever the reason…. The kids and I are free to just be. The restraining order expired a little while ago and so I guess I am just a little jumpy in case he decides to start up again.

Lover of no contact – I feel for your daughter. It is very hard because of course they love their dads. Mine pushed it too far and hurt her very badly but it worked out better in the long run as she has refused to entertain any of his nonsense since – I hope your daughter can see through it too.

Big love to all my forum friends xxx

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Thank you thank you Lisa – all congratulations gratefully received.

Hi Serenity, I think you may have joined just as I was fading out…I am an old old member 🙂

I was here at the same time as Karma, Head Cook, HowmadamI, Eliza, lil bird and lots more. I am living proof that No Contact can seriously improve your mental health and that of your children 🙂

Hope you are all doing well xx

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