Unhappydesperate

[Unhappydesperate]

Hiw cery true Miles.
It’s amazing what songs come up on the radio that have real good meanings and associations with certain things in your life.
I hope you manage to get yourself sorted for yourself and your son xx

[Unhappydesperate]

Thank you both for your advice and for taking the time to respond.
I have been living in this nightmare for nearly a year and I’m getting to the end of my tether as he refuses to move out. So you can imagine what the atmosphere is like for me and my children as we just don’t talk which causes its difficulties.
The situation is “toxic ” for my children so the sooner this is over the better.
I have to say WA (national line) have been amazing, I have total admiration for those people that are there to listen and give advice.
X

[Unhappydesperate]

Thank you serenity
How I have stood living like this for (detail removed by moderator) months is beyond me. But I’ve done it for my three children. In a very patient person and people have said that I have the patience of a saint, but I’ve had enough now. This waiting game is taking far too long!!

[Unhappydesperate]

Hello cupcake
It’s a desperate situation and it’s been described as “toxic “. I’m watching my kids being abused and there is nothing that I can do or say to stop him. He’s been divorced before, has two kids from a previous marriage and now the show is on the ither foot, that’s what he’s doing and it’s wrong !
I’m not the kind of person that asks for help but I’ve tried contacting all kinds of people but come up again st brick walls the whole time. There’s no support out there and I think that I. Don’t be the only woman going through this.
Clearly from reading posts on here, I’m not.
The women’s aid national helpline has been amazing thank goodness 😀

[Unhappydesperate]

I completely understand. I am in the same position but I have been living like this for (detail removed by moderator) months as my husband refuses to move out.
He has totally brainwashed /alienated /isolated my three young children from me and the situation is toxic. How I have coped, I have no idea. I also work full time (detail removed by moderator)  so it’s all very full-on.
I’ve been accused of all sorts from committing adultery which isn’t true to having a mental breakdown to being unbalanced. I’d like to know when I’ve had those as I’ve put up with being emotionally abused for (detail removed by moderator) years!!
I’ve now been told by him that he wants sole custody of my three children when Ive been thr some carer for (detail removed by moderator)years while he’s been socislising /drinnking /living the life of a single man, oh he wants the house too. I’m getting to the stage that I can’t take much more.
(detail removed by moderator) I’m off sick with the flu. He told my (age removed by moderator) old that she wasn’t allowed to put kisses on my birthday card! Heartbreaking!!

I feel desperately sorry for you and would welcome any advice /tips from anyone !!

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