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I think you’re right Fizzylem – I think this is all a sign that I need to recharge. I feel like I’ve been constantly running on adrenaline for a long time and it’s taken it’s toll.

I have some plans to put into action to put boundaries in place for communication. I think he enjoys having direct access to grind me down (it’s just hard to understand why anyone would behave like this to another person but I don’t think I’ll ever understand it). Thank you.

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Percypooper – it’s so hard. It can feel very lonely. I don’t think I’ve ever felt this lonely before in my life. It helps to talk here to others

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Thank you Fizzylem.

I’m trying to reestablish boundaries with our communication. It’s getting out of hand and he’s being resistant to any changes on this as I believe he wants that direct access to me through texts etc. I’ve held it together for quite a long time but his recent awful behaviour seems to have tipped me over the edge – I just can’t seem to dust myself off like I always have.

I will get in touch with local WA for support. Thank you for the suggestions x

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Thank you both for your replies – it really helps. I will have a proper read through of what you’ve said later after little one is in bed. When you say 3rd party though for communication – do you use a family member for example?

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