thank you for replying he’s self employed so he’s his own boss… I’ve come home from a work night and I’m obviously cheating as I dared to go out.. got screamed and abused and am now in bed wondering y I went out in first place. I can’t do this anymore … I can’t have a life I can’t dress in nice clothes I can’t talk how I want .. it’s like. he’s got me and I’m not allowed to be me anymore I need to run with my babies or I need to woman up .. but I’ve got to work and explanation my face or give them some excuse .. I need someone to tell me this is normal or fair right now