oh yeah another thing. My partner is hugely apologetic for the incident but I feel he also feels hurt by my words. I dont feel that they equate to the same. Basically I said (detail removed by moderator). Which he now knows is true but I called him an addict which was an exaggeration and this is what set him off. Or why he was so angry. I guess he feels put down by me and I know my ex felt the same way but that was not my intention. As a black woman I don’t know if I’m being harsh , pushing him away. Imasculating him. Or if actually this isn’t right. Are we balanced ?
