Thank you so much for your replies all of you, I really appreciate them.
Yes, I reported the sexual abuse as well, but they’ve deemed it of a level that they’re going to invite him to a voluntary interview, but I don’t know when that will happen. I have been told to call 999 if he turns up at my house, which I have done once, but sadly he had left before the police arrived.
I was referred to WA when I made the initial report but I stupidly didn’t engage with them when they tried to contact me – I think I was still in denial and not yet come to terms with the reality of the situation. I know I should contact them now but I haven’t been able to push myself to take that step.