beanyboo22

[beanyboo22]

I don’t know if I have done something stupid. Yesterday I was feeling down and browsing online and came across a number I could text to a domestic violence unit at the police. So I texts them and asked for advice,they told me I should definitely report the abuse I’m suffering and then u got a msg from a duty social worker who the police had rang concerned about me. I told her I was ok just feeling rubbish and so fed up. Now my own social worker is ringing me tomorrow to arrange a appointment. But now I feel silly,as he hasn’t been that bad for past day or so. What should I do,please help me.

[beanyboo22]

No we don’t really except for our social worker who is only just getting involved but I’ve only been able to speak to her once but I didn’t think she knew much about sexual abuse coz she said it was a relationship problem if he stopped when I asked but if I’m asleep,how can I say no?? So except for this site,I feel completely alone.

[beanyboo22]

I did get a little time yesterday but the line was busy and then when I got home I got told off for taking too long,id kept receipts from where id been because I knew what to expect so I had to prove where id been to prove id not snuck of somewhere. Last night he tried to be intimate,but I refused,so he tried again anyway while I was asleep but stopped short of full intimacy. Now this morning he’s mimicking my laugh when I talk to kids,knocking chairs over and being sarcastic so I know what kind of day its going to be.x

[beanyboo22]

Ps if I ring the police,will they come out just for a threat?

[beanyboo22]

I’ll try to call but it’ll not be today. Its so awkward today,hes just nothing but sarcastic and I feel so on edge. Thank you for replying. It helps a little knowing I can tell someone. I feel so sorry for the kids too as they can obviously here/see it but just carry on as normal. X

[beanyboo22]

Thank you Lisa. I can’t ring as he’s always with me. (Removed by moderator) was a bad nasty night. He told me to drop dead and if I didn’t then he’d kill me. He’s never hit me but I was afraid (removed by moderator). He called me a prostitute and a Lott of nasty names. I silently cried myself to sleep. This morning he told our children that he had enough and was leaving making me look bad. I’m so so tired and fed up.

[beanyboo22]

Hi,please can someone please give me advice. I had a meeting with social worker last week,she spoke to me n partner. She already knows about previous sexual abuse while I was asleep and guessd that it was still happening. She said if he stopped when I woke and told him to then its a relationship problem! I feel really confused by this as I thought if I didn’t consent then its illegal. Also,he’s been referred to a domestic violence course,but he keeps saying”you can tell them this n tell them that” when he’s accusing me of cheating or calling me thick,useless or whatever else he says. Now I feel lost. He’s not speaking to me as I turned him down today as he’d accused me Las night again and when I said he’s got a nerve hr said its ok,we’ll have a fresh start,I said no so he said fine-we’ll go bk to how it was last night. He obviously doesn’t give a hoot about me,would have quite happily used me this morning eventho he calls me a slag??. Advice please.x

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