Thankyou for your reply and you are exactly right I feel like a addict detoxing! I cant report him he works as a (detail removed by Moderator) and his now wife is a (detail removed by Moderator) , he has already made me feel like I am mad he will do something to turn this on me I know it. and like the sexual abuse or coercion I spoke to him about how I felt and he said it was all in my mind and he would never force himself on me and then for days he would freeze me out and be nasty about my body ect .. my daughter is married to a (detail removed by Moderator) man and he has said he will report them (even though he is here legally) he will make sure he gets deported. I read this back and feel I sound so weak and stupid.