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Well done, you have proved how strong you really are, just pleased some courts do protect the witness in various situations but obviously not all do. Hope they send a huge bunch off flowers & large box off chocolates x

[buddha]

I don’t have voicemail but have written down every bit off contact. I promised my children would never see what I did growing up as my mum was in a similar situation although did not live with her. My children have given me the strength I need at the moment & keep me going when all I want to do is break down & cry. I can honestly say each day I feel a bit stronger although I am still waiting for the police to contact me after reporting the latest text message. This site is such a great help & I feel very lucky to have found it x

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He was released without bail (detail removed by Moderator), I wouldn’t feel safe for my daughter to walk around the corner but luckily where she works I can park directly outside & all the staff & customers can see my car.
Got to wait until (detail removed by Moderator) before I can even think about divorce cos you have to be married 12 months first which I personally feel is wrong for domestic abuse victims, looked it up as soon as I could.
It feels like he knows he can get away with it cos the last txt started with “(detail removed by Moderator)“.
Once I finally hear from the police about the txt from yesterday I will ask to speak to a Domestic Abuse officer as I am keeping my phone free for them to contact me.
Thank you again for your help, it’s nice knowing I will be ok once everything is in place properly & there is a light at the end off the tunnel as they say x

[buddha]

I emailed this site yesterday as with very young children I am lucky to have a few minutes to myself, was advised about this forum. I am hoping when my oldest gets up she will help with the 3 babies so I can call someone. I have written down every time he has contacted me, also kept all the messages although his number is blocked on my phone I can still read them. As he has not threatened me & keeps saying sorry & wants to see the kids the officer didn’t seem to care.
The main police station near me is in the town he is now staying in, it’s also where all the main supermarkets & solicitors are, it makes me feel like he still has control over us. Doesn’t help he knows what day my oldest works & the hours so I am scared doing the drop off & pick up just so she is safe.
I am going to make an appointment tomorrow with my GP as I need as much help as possible.
The fact he is known to the police for various things & always gets away with it has made me feel like I can’t trust them.
Do you know how I can talk to Domestic Abuse police? A lot has happened over the years that I should have seen the signs but always forgave him, blamed the fact he was drunk etc & believed him when he said it wouldn’t happen again.
thank you for replying, means a lot x

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