butterfly2021

[butterfly2021]

hi @dolly2019 hope you doing ok x every day is a day away from the pain, you have come so far do not give in now.. he is the one who is missing out, he is the one who doesnt deserve you and try to be strong do not look back and have gone through all this for nothing.. he is not a kind person, imagine 20 years ahead do you really want to be with someone who can hurt you so much ? try to now think how strong you have been and keep walking forward.. let him see he cannot destroy anymore.. this will be his own destruction x much hugs and keep going you doing amazing x

[butterfly2021]

@soloclimb dont give up .. you are one step away xxx

[butterfly2021]

good advice KIP …. and you broken and distraught need to be strong and free now x you have to go through this bit just to realise that you are worth so much more x try to reach out to those who can help not listen to those who cant, everyone will see a different picture but your pain is the one that matters now and you need to heal and be thinking you have changed your life for the better no matter what.His family may not see things through your eyes right now, but one day they will and you just need to surround yourself with as much love and strength which says im worth more than this.. thats it simple and clear.. you never need to be worrying that is the wrong way to think.. try to not doubt yourself and believe you have taken control finally and can be the person you want to xxx lots of love and hugs x

[butterfly2021]

Hi Doris2020, so sorry to hear of your pain and the stuff he put you through.. do not ever feel silly for reaching out, cos together there are always others who will share or support or just even read and listen … Try to now see your life as an open road, one which has led you to freedom, he will come unstuck, his life will turn and no doubt he will do same again.. but you are free and you can walk into whatever path you want without his power over you … feel sympathy for the new one.. she has it all to come.. remember how charming he was.. it will soon revert and you will too become the successful and independent one, who he thinks back to… you can only look forward now but remind yourself everyday you no longer have to be a slave to his wishes and ego… you are someone who sounds so hurt and sad, but that too can change… I was there too ..so its not just dreams or fantasy, it is the best time for you to rebuild and leave him to his own self gratification, he will never “own” you again that is your power xxx

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