Thankyou for your advise I have been in a few courses with the women’s aid but found it was geared towards people that had already been living apart and had very small children , My children have lived with this since they were born they know no different , I feel it is my duty to keep telling them that this is not normal , he is very controlling with them and they never want to spend anytime at home ..
They are pretty much always working to stay out of his way 🙁
They are both saving to be able to move out eventually..
I am so used to the abuse which is sad I can almost take anything he throws at me if you know what I mean ..
I have been at rock bottom for (detail removed by moderator) and feel I do not know how to be happy or how it feels ..
I was advised by a solicitor that I would not be entitled to anything ..
I have looked after the boys forever and him whilst he works and subsequently saves all his money , whilst I have nothing ..
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I feel completely lost in everything
