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    • #139633
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      Things he’s put in my name without me knowing 🙁

    • #139499
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      Yes I dialled 999 a couple of months ago as he was being aggressive. I ended up being led away from the house threatened with arrest! They have finally interviewed him but said it will take time. Meanwhile I’m left trying to unravel it all.
      I’ve done two credit searches and found some cards that way. I’ll check out what solicitors can trace, thank you

    • #139492
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      I’ve contacted citizen’s advice and they said that the case is too complex for them. A big problem is I don’t have details of what is in my name. It is so confusing and frustrating.

      There’s 3 providers I’ve contacted and had nothing at all back from. I feel like I’m hitting brick walls every which way. 🙁

      I did go on the SEA site and have spoken to them on the phone line. I think there’s that many issues that I have financially that I just go round in circles with it. I can’t even cancel bank accounts as I don’t have any of the cards, all I can do is stop them which leaves me linked financially apparently. x

    • #136053
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      Hi
      Solicitor said it would be easier to get him out the house if I was there . I did say it wasn’t ideal due to his history but I tried going back, what a mistake!
      Police said I could give an interview in the back of the police car or they’d arrest me. They did say I could have a solicitor but I refused as my child had witnessed all the commotion and was waiting for me. My aim was to get to them asap. The police tried to leave them in the house until they told them they wanted to leave with me.
      I did admit throwing something towards him which is the offence. I also showed them all my evidence but they said that didn’t count. I brought it up at my interview the other day and the PC is looking into it. She did look quite aghast when I shared what happened, particularly having listened to my evidence.
      Yes it is a mortgage. I’ll call the lender tomorrow. I feel he is trying to bully me financially now by making stupid demands financially that I can’t afford.
      I honestly didn’t realise it would be this hard once I left! x

    • #136051
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      Thank you for replying. One major issue I have is he has all financial info. I’m working with very limited info which is making everything so much harder 🙁 I’m going to give it a go tomorrow though and try to sort what I can out. I know I can do this x

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