EndlessVictim

[EndlessVictim]

This is exactly what I’m experiencing, in private with me he is constantly critical and he has also been trying to convince me I have a personality disorder. Everyone thinks he’s the loveliest guy, even a family member of mine (detail removed by moderator) 😔 I have moved to be with him and have no support. He is surrounded by people saying he’s amazing. What the hell do I do with that. I have a friend saying report him to the police for coercive control but they would laugh at me. He twists everything, I’ve never been so confused in all my life. I just want to escape but it is impossible! Why are there so many of them?

[EndlessVictim]

So my child is not his and he has been awful to them since we moved in, while saying to ME that he thinks their (detail removed by moderator). But, no, he does not want to keep my child. I haven’t spoken to a solicitor because I know I would have no rights. This house was bought with his money and I came into the relationship with virtually little. He paid off my credit cards for me and a debt to my ex when we first started seeing each other. I have been on long term sick due to my disabilities and am now applying for (detail removed by moderator) but, as you can imagine, my income has been virtually nothing.

[EndlessVictim]

I read about the types of abuse and I know that some of them are so clever. They never threaten to hit, they just act aggressive. They don’t tell you not to speak to your family or friends, they ‘help you to recognise’ that they are no good for you. They make you feel like you are to blame for all the family’s problems and that they are so lovely for welcoming you in. They message the people they think you might be reaching out to for support, just to make sure they have an alternative story.

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