exhaustedandfedup

[exhaustedandfedup]

thank you all that’s all really good advice. I am trying to enjoy the peace. I hope he isn’t starting his games on his new girlfriend even though I don’t know her! I think setting boundaries is a great idea. Thanks. Time to get some things in order!

[exhaustedandfedup]

thank you. Yes your right I think I need more information about what my options are. I spoke to someone from WA who gave me lots of contact numbers and I meet someone advised by WA in the next week so hopefully I will be better informed after that and feel less stuck. I feel a mix of wanting to do something about it to feel more powerful and willing to do anything for a few days breather. Over 100 messages in 3 weeks is excessive and suffocating. Just want a break. Luckily I have saved them all. I never say a bad word to the kids about their dad but they seem to want to see him less and less due to his behaviour.

[exhaustedandfedup]

thank you. I just keep thinking things will settle down and I am worried if I tell the police etc and they speak to him that this will make things worse. I spoke to a family member about the situation and they said well you haven’t heard anything for a couple of days why rock the boat. Your right I probably need to get some information. You just get to a point where its suffocating and I am just fed up with it all tbh.

[exhaustedandfedup]

I cant afford court fees. He has also left unpaid bills that are in my name. He has stopped paying any form of child maintenance. I sometimes think I am maybe being dramatic. what if he manages to make people such as court that I am in the wrong? he tells me now he isn’t working he gets all his court fees paid whereas I have to pay all my own. I got a quote of £180 for an hour with a solicitor. He always wins.

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