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KIP just made me cry! Thanks for directing me to that post

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I’ve only just read this massage. It makes me feel a little sane knowing that things pop into other people heads as well. Today post is exactly the same. Still having flash backs just feel so angry about it all

Thank you for being here xx

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Still trying. You just made me cry. I’m exactly like that. There are good times in my rekarionship but in the back of my mind I know what’s happening. It eats me up and then I melt down. They make us break, we carry their issues that they have put on us. Cause we are not perfect but it’s ok not to be. Real men would help us to get through the bad days not hold them against us.

This forum is so good. We have each other. You are going to be ok

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What a beautiful post to read 😁 isn’t self care the best thing in the world?

I decided to create myself a bohemian sanctuary. So my flat can be full of love and creativity not bad memories. I’ve brought loads, replacing the stiff that I can horrible stuff through and making loads of things. Painting, buying flowers.

I’ll be skint for ever I really don’t care 😁😁

I read a post about somebody being a student so couldn’t treat herself loads. My advice would be to run yourself to the gift of your own time.

Run yourself a romantic bath… candles music, use the shower cream you save for special occasions. Or cook yourself your favourite meal? Sit at the table, eating something that’s not what you would usually do. Put your books down, forgot the house work and go for a walk?

You ladies are all so amazing and deserve gifts. Thank you all for being you xx

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KIP.

Thank you for being you. I’ve just read that post and cried. Those words are so true. It’s so comforting to know I’m not alone.

Those (detail removed by Moderator) may have knocked us to the ground but this forum shows together we will always get back up

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Thank you xx ill give it a read now.

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Hey, ftc thank you for replying x do you feel like you can move on even though things keep popping back? I hope that makes sense 🙄 I’m not an angry person and I hate feeling it, it feels like he still has a hold on me but I can’t let forget it go. I’m scared it’s going to define me in some way

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Wow. Again you guys are thinking and feeling the same thoughts that I am. The trauma bonding stuff is really insightful. Rainbows and sunshine. You loved, that’s because you are a good person.You loved in good faith. If only there was a answer other than time. But time will make it better,

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