Fleeingpixie

[Fleeingpixie]

Hello diymum

Is there an online petition? If I google I want my mum, in a minute?

I for one would sign, seems the courts will hand children over to anyone with a DNA link, regardless of their history.
Despite my child’s dad sighting suicide when I left him years ago and then threatening me with knives when I wouldn’t go back, (Detail removed by Moderator), contact centre then on his own based on a letter from his GP saying he had no psychiatric issues!
Whether it’s down to lack of training, knowledge, care, time or whatever else. I agree with you that something has to be done to make it a safer system.
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[Fleeingpixie]

Hello again ladies

Thank you for your answers and sorry for a slow reply, where me and the kids have been staying, I’ve only had my phone for net and find the forum doesn’t work well on my phone, for writing essays anyway!
I’ve taken some of your advises about requesting a DV officer, I’ll put the goings on in a new thread though.

Tiffany, are you sure it’s not had the same man?! I was told ‘Britain has no culture’ too, but I disrespect and don’t understand his.

Apricotpoppy, I think I was on autopilot and now my brain has crashed. I will make an appointment to see my GP though and ask about the IAPT thing. Seems like it is working for you.

Thank you all again

[Fleeingpixie]

Good Morning Apricotpoppy,
Thank you for replying and your support and advice. The only contact I have had with police is to say he’d locked me out of my house and was told I can get a locksmith or break in. I haven’t spoken to them otherwise. Maybe I should speak with them, so it is possible to ask for a trained officer? as when I went to the police about my ex they weren’t that helpful and it has put me off this time.
Other authorities answer seem to be to send me to live in a completely different area, which isn’t what I want. I want to stay out of the house as I currently am but stay in my home area, safe from him. Maybe I am being naive to think this is possible.
I have a DV worker but have only met her once since fleeing, so early days. Thankfully my work and family have been very good and do their best. If I didn’t have that I probably would have stayed.
I’d like to say also well done to you for getting out, obviously you can’t say on here how long it’s been but however long it’s been you’re making positive changes, how did you access your therapy? I have been experiencing the ‘lovebombing’ and a mixture of ‘forgive me’ one minute and ‘I’ve done nothing wrong’ the next. I don’t know if he is trying to confuse me or if he is just confused himself. Overthinking and trying to interpret him just frys the brain.

Hi Tiffany
Thank you for your support and sorry that you’ve put up with the same crap. I also am glad you got away. I have passed a lot of things off as cultural differences, because he puts it down to that, but surely it can’t be true that every relationship in that culture is abusive but passed off as the norm? I don’t know.

[Fleeingpixie]

Thank you for your support IWMB. I’m still getting my head around things, if he is abusive (I’m told he is and am seeing it but also blinkered by the sweet moments too), not sure how I let this happen again.
I’ll stick around the boards and may be able to give as well as receive support.
I hope you can be free one day xx

[Fleeingpixie]

I don’t really know what to say apart from well done for getting out and I hope you get the justice and safety you deserve. Keep doing your own thing 🙂 x

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