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    • #100231
      FREE2020
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      Hello hunkydory thank you for your kind support everything you have said is true I have only been out of the relationship for (detail removed by moderator) so yes I’m having good days and bad days and I know I will get through this,I’m blessed that I have family who have been there for me I walked out with just my clothes on my back the house was in his name and I wasn’t married or had children with him which makes it much easier for me,I just want to say to all the ladies on this site please don’t give up,I was mentally abused and I’m getting support from woman’s aid at the moment,any type of abuse is unacceptable,get out of the relationship we are stronger than you think,it is the abusers that make us weak,please ladies stay safe you have only one life so make sure you are going to be happy,sending lots of love and hugs to you all xxxxxx

    • #100229
      FREE2020
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      Hello Lisa thank you for your support,I really do appreciate this.i feel guilty for leaving and I get days where I want to go back to him but I know it is wrong for me to go back as things wouldn’t change if anything it would get worse,I have a great family supporting me all the way but my abuser was kind and caring and couldn’t do enough for me but then there was that evil streak in him where I couldn’t go to work or for a walk or go shopping on my own in fact I couldn’t do anything on my own not even answer the door to the postman,or talk to any man or watch TV with any man in it,he would never take me out or do anything with me,I lived in isolation for 2 years but now I’m living again but with all the isolating regarding the virus I’m in isolation again which is getting me down,I feel like I’m there again reliving what I have been through.

    • #100218
      FREE2020
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      Great news they seem to get fed up in the end,zero contact will be worth it in the end stay safe xx

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