Hello hunkydory thank you for your kind support everything you have said is true I have only been out of the relationship for (detail removed by moderator) so yes I’m having good days and bad days and I know I will get through this,I’m blessed that I have family who have been there for me I walked out with just my clothes on my back the house was in his name and I wasn’t married or had children with him which makes it much easier for me,I just want to say to all the ladies on this site please don’t give up,I was mentally abused and I’m getting support from woman’s aid at the moment,any type of abuse is unacceptable,get out of the relationship we are stronger than you think,it is the abusers that make us weak,please ladies stay safe you have only one life so make sure you are going to be happy,sending lots of love and hugs to you all xxxxxx