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    • #6489
      hoping
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      Really struggling today. I just want to let him know I’m sorry and know that he is OK. It is taking everything not to email him or write to him, but I don’t know if I can stop myself.

    • #6431
      hoping
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      It would be so much easier if it hadn’t just been when he was drinking. When not drunk and angry, he is the most amazing man and I miss that so much.I know I’m not responsible for his actions, but the problems in our marriage were my fault as much as his. I didn’t realise how hard this would be. I don’t know how I will even get through today, let alone tomorrow. I just wish I could change things.

    • #6414
      hoping
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      I have ended it, but can someone please tell me that it gets easier. I feel like I am only just hanging on. I don’t know who I am on my own. I know that sounds pathetic, but I feel so lost.

    • #6391
      hoping
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      Hi,

      A few days ago I reported my husband to the police. Things had got unbearable, I told someone and before I knew it I was at the police station. (Detail removed by Moderator) and has gone to stay with his family. There were awful times, but these were when he was drunk and when things were good he was the most amazing husband in the world and we had so much fun. We had no children, so only I was at risk. I can’t stop crying. I think about what he’s doing, how alone he’ll be. I’ve been told he is sorry. I know I can’t go back as there were threats to my family and they know, so they would not accept it. This is so hard, I miss him so much and wish I had just kept quiet. I could have put up with the bad stuff and still had the good stuff. Really don’t know how I’m going to get through christmas.

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