Hi Tinkerbelle,
I was in a mentally and physically abusive relationship up until (detail removed by moderator) years ago. I was with this man for (detail removed by moderator) years. He was my life and I knew no different. One day I woke up and, like you, realised I deserved more… please stay strong and try not to reply to him… like you say it’s all mind games. I’m now with a younger man who has shown me what true love really is. Hang on in there, go with your gut… surround yourself with people who know your true value and cut ties with those who do not. I passed my ex the other day, I was no longer scared nor intimidated. I knew I was better and worth more than he deserved. You’re already half way there and soon enough you’ll start to find yourself again. We all have the power to rise above these God awful men and live the life we were meant to. Stay safe xxx