Littlelemon1234

[Littlelemon1234]

I really, really feel for you. I honestly could’ve written your statement myself. It’s an awful situation to be in.

Like the posters above me have said, these aren’t the actions of a loving partner. They destroy the love you feel for your partner too. I used to think his desire for me was love but now I realise it truly wasn’t. Even when you try and explain how you feel they don’t want to understand or they literally can’t.

Im in the process of leaving but lockdown has thrown a spanner in the works.

Keep strong, you deserve so, so much better. You have the right to say no and to not feel guilty for it xx

[Littlelemon1234]

I told my mum we ‘weren’t getting on’ and that I wasn’t sure I wanted to be with him anymore. She asked me if I felt safe and I couldn’t bring myself to say no. So I just said I did. She said it’s best to wait it out but I don’t know how long that will be. I just feel like I’m wasting my life away. It’s just so hard to end the relationship, I tried to but he won’t let me, saying we need to work on things first. But I don’t want to work on it, and I feel so guilty.

[Littlelemon1234]

It’s going to sound so silly but I’m so frightened about telling my parents. They aren’t aware of anything and it’s almost if I tell them. Then I’m admitting it’s really happening. I also have this irrational worry that they’ll turn around and say no.

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