Lotsofjellytots

[Lotsofjellytots]

Talk on here to everyone has helped lots, thank you. I just wish I had the courage years ago when I was given a card for a DA helpline from the police after a incident where he was removed from our house. I feel so stupid not seeking help before. Talking through things that have happened has made me realise how much I’ve put up with. He never saw anything he was doing as abuse and would call me pathetic or I was over reacting. I’ve never felt stronger then how I do now.
I won’t mention about him threatening court xx

[Lotsofjellytots]

Thank you everyone for your messages. I have reported it to 101 and they’re going to look into it and contact me back. I told them I was scared due to threats my ex made in the past about sending people round my house to kick my door in.
Police are already involved and I’m currently waiting to convict my ex of assault. I won’t be giving my ex any contact with my child, he’ll have to go through family court for that. My social worker has deemed me and my babies at high risk of harm from him so hopefully he won’t get very far in trying to get contact. He told me when I left him that he didn’t want anything to do with our baby, he just wants contact with our oldest child. I just don’t understand how cruel some people are xxx

[Lotsofjellytots]

He most likely will only threaten me with court, he threaten last year when I tried to break up with him that he’ll take our daughter and ill never see her again. but seeing that he hasn’t tried with his other kids I’m hoping he won’t bother especially if I report him it’ll be on record the things he’s done and that might deterrent him from bothering as it surely would go against him. I have contacted the police to report him and am now waiting for them to come and see me to make a statement. I only have audio recording of the incident of him throwing things at both me and my daughter and also him slamming the door closed on my arm. I have photos of the bruises too. I’m hoping this is evidence enough. xxx

[Lotsofjellytots]

fizzylem, my child is too young to make a statement (detail removed by moderator) but luckily too young to understand some of the things my ex said infront of her as he said he didn’t want her. My ex has two children from a previous relationship which their mother stopped him from having contact over (detail removed by moderator) years ago now due to him getting drunk while looking after them alone, she told him to take her to court if he wanted to see them. My ex hasn’t bothered getting contact with them and never took her to court and has also never paid her child maintenance. so I was hoping he would be the same and not bother with getting contact. But if he did try and get contact through court I’m hoping that me reporting him to the police would going in my favour as it would prove the extent of the abuse he did.

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