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Where should I report it. (detail removed by Moderator) he was yelling and shouting at me because he couldn’t find the (detail removed by Moderator). He accused me of hiding him. He cursed at me. The children are afraid. I can’t stand there and wait and be afraid. What should I do? I’m worried about children.

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Thank you for your response. Unfortunately, I have no one to talk to about my situation. On the outside, my husband is a nice guy, he works and nothing to fault. But he’s a different person at home. When I wrote that my husband was punishing me without speaking, he was silent again. On the (detail removed by Moderator) he did not speak to me. At (detail removed by Moderator), I approached him and offered him my best wishes. He asked if that was all I had to say to him. It’s sad because I was the first to reach out to him because I don’t want to live like that. (detail removed by Moderator) Now it happens more often when he takes offense. A few times a week. He doesn’t like it when I point out to him that I don’t like something. She slams the door and speaks to herself, not directly to me, but so that I can hear it. He held my shoulders tightly and I tell him to let go of me, to stop doing that and he to tell him that he would. My heart pounds then. He can say several times a day that he loves me and then is rude to me. I’m serious about breaking up. But I’m afraid that he will destroy me, that he will take my children away. She will accuse me of destroying the relationship. But I really know something is wrong with our marriage.

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Hello. I don’t know if this is abusive or if it seems to me that there is no visible violence. It’s not like he beats me. This is invisible violence. We have been married for (detail removed by moderator) years. But for maybe a year I realized that I was living in an unhealthy relationship. We can’t talk to each other. Even now, as he writes, I can’t explain what’s going on. But I feel mentally exhausted. He hardly laughs at all. We often have arguments. The husband speaks in a raised voice. When I silence him so that the children can’t hear, he doesn’t react. Recently, I discovered that he was cheating on me. But he doesn’t plead guilty. He takes credit debits, I don’t know what he is spending money on. He works. I am at home with children. When I try to speak honestly with him about our problems in marriage that we have a problem in directs all attention that it’s my problem that it’s my fault. Because I don’t hug him. But I don’t feel like when I know he’s cheating on me. I don’t have support for him. When I have a problem and I just want to talk to him, he says we have a problem again. But who should I talk to. I have no family here, no friends I could meet. I am at home all the time. I’m walking children to school. Or maybe I’ll go out and buy something. Besides, I don’t leave the house because there is nowhere to go. I am a sensitive person and each of his accepted words hurt me greatly. But the fact that I am crying does not react. He seems to lack empathy. Sometimes someone tells me that he admires me for how I deal with children. We have 4 children. I don’t trust my husband. I lost my trust in him. But I doubt myself. I think if I reacted differently, he would be different. He often offends like a child. I’m angry that I didn’t do the shopping list. His blame on me made me not confident. I used to be the same but now it’s getting worse. I can’t even buy clothes for myself. I am asking my husband to come and choose me. (detail removed by moderator) I think he will be like that and he won’t change. And it will be worse. I have no strength to look after children well. I am depressed. I think id some time to leave but I’m afraid. I am afraid that I will not be able to cope with children and financially. A few months ago I talked to a person who helps to hurt a woman. But she couldn’t help because I couldn’t help with physical violence. But she told me that our marriage is toxic. I do not know what to do.

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