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My husband uses guilt that he left his home country for me, and now I want to put him out and he has nowhere to go, nothing to go back to.

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Happy New Year. I’ve been in my guest bedroom since we we got back from church at (detail removed by moderator)am. It’s now after (detail removed by moderator)pm. I only came out when he left the house to smoke to get a coffee, food and use the toilet.

I know he’s going to use the new year to ask for another chance. He pulled the Pastor aside yesterday obviously telling him, I threatened divorce again. I can’t keeping making threats and not following through, that’s what he does. I need my happy, peaceful life back.

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Especially in church communities where women are told to submit and honour their husbands.

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I married a Caribbean man very damaged by his upbringing and takes it out on women. I tried to work it out with church, counselling, therapy but he won’t admit he has a problem, so won’t get help. I’ve decided to take my life back.

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Good advice, I’m on here today after getting advice to contact donestic violence.

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I’m going through similar. Married a man I met through family in Jamaica. Members of my family flew out there for the wedding and he was the first to get married in generations, they were so proud of him, marrying a British girl. He’s only been here a year but has been verbally emotionally abusive almost every week. He accuses me of dating, having sex with other men every time I go out without him in the evening. He says I give everyone more attention than him, if I don’t answer a voice note he either deletes it or uses it as an excuse to accuse me or cheating or ignoring him. He won’t leave me alone, if I want some quiet time he’ll keep coming into the room just to see what I’m doing. If I have a day off work, he will call several times or just turn up during the day. I’ve had enough!

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