Thank you both for taking the time to read and reply often feel like I’m drowning and struggling to stay afloat even after all these years and when things appear to be going well then woosh another wave comes along to remind me of my place.
Hoping once I’ve seen my solicitor then things will become alot clearer in where I stand. I have refused my permission to do this with the contact centre staff just hoping this does not go against me in any way I know this will set him off so will be keeping an extra eye out for our safety over the week or so. I am still completely in shock at how they have come to this decsion I always thought contact centres were supposed to be completely neutral with the children’s needs being paramount to any others needs or wishes let alone for them to try and override a court order. Feeling very deflated that after everything we have been through this can still be an issue so many years after we have left hopefully there will be some light at the end of the tunnel one day.
