Yes I’m in a very similar situation myself at the minute and it completely throws you doesn’t it? I’ve been saying I want to leave to my other half for nearly (detail removed by moderator) weeks and he’s trying every trick in the book saying he’ll change, setting us up a joint account, going to counselling, being really loving etc but also he’s suffocating me and not letting me have space. It’s a clever tactic to wear us down and make us stay. Their really not stupid people are they, very good at manipulating us. Be strong 💪🏻 be brave have courage you can do this!!!!!