Staystrong

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I’m having similar thoughts, I suggested my ex might like to collect our daughter from her(detail removed by moderator)…for his benefit I realise in hindsight. He just used it as an opportunity to see me and have a go at me. So, like you, unless he mentions it I won’t go out of my way to be considerate to his feelings. Keep strong X

[Staystrong]

I read your story and realise it’s similar to mine. I have left worth my children but took me years of leaving and returning until finally I had to go out of fear. Yes ideally you’d have your ducks in a row but as others have said you have to weigh up the benefits of leaving and not having your ducks in a row. Your children and you are suffering being in that relationship. You will be 100% better off out of there.

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The thing is the ‘subtle’ things often actually equate to quite a high level of control. My ex was the same but moxed with anger and threatening behaviour.

[Staystrong]

I tell myself that we (me and my children) are going to have a fantastic life without him. I am strong. So much stronger than him in every way.
I love your mantras x

[Staystrong]

Yes before something terribly terribly bad happens. Please go.

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