Sunisshining

[Sunisshining]

Both your posts have been read by me. I too miss him, want to see him, be with him but then can’t stop thinking what he as done to me the last incident is unforgivable for me, my own incident my own memories.  I’ve heard of trauma bond but don’t understand it.

I’m stuck in immense confusion I have got DV involved and their supportive help is starting soon.

To be in the confusion of hurt and no hurt, good or bad, is immense pain and its only the memory of the last incident that stops me contacting him.

It’s very  early days for me but thank you for your posts

[Sunisshining]

I am new on forum. I feel for you. I have ended my relationship. I feel the incident is unforgivable but want to see him, talk to him, ask him why? Can relationship be repaired? Have him in my life. My relationship as never been easy but some good times. I may not have the same situation as yourself but know how your feeling the heartbreak that’s here when it comes to an end.

[Sunisshining]

I understand your struggle today. I’ve heard of trauma bond but don’t really understand it. I have no answers but can say I understand your emotions. I’ve cut of completely because of an incident that is unforgivable but before after going through lots of time in confusion and forgiveness. I had to leave. But your emotion of feeling of being stuck is understanding for me. Be strong be so kind to yourself you deserve answers to your questions

[Sunisshining]

So inspired with your post. Well done and smile all the way on your new journey your new chapter in life 😁

[Sunisshining]

Thank you Reading that it’s normal to feel like this gives me understanding I’m okay at moment

[Sunisshining]

Thank you I’m very early days, I’m all over the place. DV support is planned this I need to talk of what’s happened as I hold wrong emotions inside me, all messed such turmoil inside with what’s happened. I’ve read your ideas and thank you for your belief of me. You do feel so alone with your memories and beliefs of what’s right and wrong. Minute by minute hour by hour concentration is poor but its very early days

[Author]

Posts