Sunshine227

[Sunshine227]

Hi lostforever,

I have this thought a lot too. I 100% wouldn’t have made it through these lockdowns and working from home if he was still here. I honestly probably would have lost my job because he wouldn’t have liked the fact it took up my day when he wanted me to be with him. I’m in the same boat as you, I think about it often. I still feel anxious. The worst part of wfh is that I know that he knows I am home all time time, he knows when my work starts and ends and what time my lunch is. In a normal year I would have much less routine and I feel like he would find it harder totrack me. Its been really difficult but I just have to tell myself if could have been so much worse if I hadn’t have got out.

[Sunshine227]

Hi RedGiraffe,

After being controlled and not having any freedom I personally find it quite liberating to be out doing the things I want to do. At first it seems weird and you do feel self conscious but it gets better. You’ll see more people doing it alone than you expect.

Maybe start off small, test the water with a small trip and see how it feels. You can do it!

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