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    • #156739
      Feliciabutterfly
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      Dearest Mellow,

      You are grieving the death of this relationship- one thing is depression will be part of it burg there is hope on the other side because you will realise he is fake and phoney and you were always better off without him.

      If you have the resources block and delete him and never look back. Your kids and you deserve better

    • #156636
      Feliciabutterfly
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      You are not alone trust your instict. My therapist told me to work backwards. Listen to yoiur gut- sit with this instinct and even act on it. Then go through your mind and think and reflect “why did I feel this way?” your mind will flashback and tell you why you came to this instinct

    • #156634
      Feliciabutterfly
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      Please go and get yourself tested you can look up SH UK or SH london or GUM clinics near me or ask GP . If he is openly having affairs and then coming back to you after to protect your health.

    • #156633
      Feliciabutterfly
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      Please access womens group in your area https://www.freedomprogramme.co.uk/avs.php?search=+&Submit=Submit or even IAPT services to work on your mental health as the mind is the most important and terrible thing to waste. You have to keep strong, positive and focused for you and your kids.

    • #156632
      Feliciabutterfly
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      (detail removed by Moderator). And you can do the same look up Dr Ramani on youtube womens aid support worker recommened me once and and dr David clarke – they talk about signs of abuse and also how to leave. you dont have to put up with this nonsense. I pray God gives you strength and grace on which to stand you deserve so much more.

    • #156594
      Feliciabutterfly
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      Hello Mellow! Thanks for sharing your story I have been wondering if my husband has another life too. I hope that this finds you – most abusers, toxic people and those displaying signs of narcissm can be unfaithful (ranging from talking to taking on second wives). (detail removed by Moderator). But you are not. Alot of people accept it due to financial gain and being abused physically or emotionally tricked into staying

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