GreyedoutBlossom

[GreyedoutBlossom]

UPDATE

I broke up with him (detail removed by moderator) It was really difficult but thankyou to all of your posts as they supported me to make the decision final. I was sick with anxiety going to his house. He cried and begged for me to stay and asked for one final chance and I said NO.

he kept saying he was going to change but I did not believe him. He told me multiple lies and he disrespected me. I should have left after the first red flag but I had a lot of feelings for him, I know he has a goodness in him someowhere,but for sake of my mental health I could not stay. I hope he finds the courage to go to therapy for his problems.

I hope now I can finally heal

[GreyedoutBlossom]

Hello, I am so sorry you are going through this! They sound like my ex, I have been through the same. My ex used to call of a no caller id all the time, I found a setting in my phone to block all private numbers. check your phone make and settings, and you can also find help on the internet for that. if your phone doesn’t have it, you can contact your provider to change your number, which I did. You can do this free of charge aswell, aslong as you havent changed your phone number in the last year i think it is, thats with o2 though.

I am so proud of you for sticking up for yourself and standing your ground <3 I wish I did the same

[GreyedoutBlossom]

Hello, thankyou for your reply! I am really grateful, I am happy to hear you took him to court, I hope you got the justice you deserved. Court is very confusing for me at the moment, when you gave a statement did you give them your phone and all your evidence? You don’t have to tell me if you don’t want too :)but any sort of advice about giving evidence I would be grateful for. Thankyou for that advice aswell. I have this account, and I have been talking with friends aswell for support.

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