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I have no idea why it didnt include that. Landlord not helping me as they said they have to act on the tenancy as a whole so if he gets evicted then i will also. They are not helping me at all. I am stuck now what do I do

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Got nowhere to go and it’s a joint tenancy but I pay all the Bill’s. I was going to go to refuge 2 days ago but I turned it down. I cant pay rent on 2 places

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Yes I have been recording him and showing the police but it is not enough to have him arrested. I cant cope I am just going to move out tomorrow and start again. I will loose everything

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Thanks. The non mol is in place whilst we are living together. He has got (removed by moderator) to write a statement I know this is true because I asked them. The (removed by moderator) is being manipulated by him and has been doing everything he asks him to for a long time. I dont know what to do?? Apparently I (removed by moderator) him and (removed by moderator). I’m not sure whe this was supposed to be and there were no police calls. Is he just trying to abuse the process?? I cant cope with this anymore. Apparently I am a physco and I dont deserve my children. He keeps using my mental health against me. I am paying for this privately aswell

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He is also saying his solicitor will represent him (removed by moderator)

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Hi I know that he has filed (removed by moderator) statements against me. He has got (removed by moderator) to write statements to say I have been violent toward him. I dont think I will get the occupation order now.

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The hearing for the occupation order is (removed by moderator) and now he keeps threatening me saying I (removed by moderator). And apparently he is getting represented for free but not legal aid..is this possible?

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I’m still scared. Will I get in trouble?

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Hi I’m scared. The court papers were served (removed by moderator) and he is threatening me. I took out some credit cards in his name with his permission and he is saying that he will get me done for fraud

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In my experience, it is because these type of men are selfish and only care for themselves. I find that if I try to talk to him about anything like the children or my feelings or his behaviour he shrugs it off and does not want to know. He does not want to acknowledge or take responsibility for anything, only his own needs.

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And the fact that I havent got the occupation order yet scares me as I still may not get it 🙁

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I’m feeling relieved in a way but still nervous (detail removed by moderator).

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Hello I have sucessfully obtained a non molestation order (detail removed by moderator) which is in place for 1 year. There is another hearing in (detail removed by moderator) for the occupation order. Thank you all for all your support x

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I dont know how to take my mind off of it to be honest! I might take the dogs for a long walk x

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I have applied for an occupation order recently and hopefully the hearing will be (detail removed by moderator). My solicitor is confident that I will get the order for emotional abuse but we also have evidence of high alcohol use as he is currently doi g Pethtrsting for care proceedings

 

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Hi I havent mentioned this in the application. The hearing was supposed to be (detail removed by moderator) so I’m hoping it will now be (detail removed by moderator)

 

 

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Thankyou so much this is really helpful. I have always gave in just for an easier life and I used to think once it’s over, he wont ask again for a couple of days. Just recently I have been telling him no and he has said he will pay for an escort.

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I also feel guilty for kicking him out. I also feel guilty as my children are currently in foster care and it is all my fault for putting up with him for so long and not recognising the signs

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Yes I used to be physically abused but now it is all emotional and it is worse. It is worse as it took me so long to realise what had been happening to me mentally and how I’ll it was making me

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