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Thanks for your replies, I honestly feel so pathetic and down trodden. I haven’t got the strength to take him on. I have been with him all my adult life. If he says he wants tea I jump up and make it, I am at his beck and call and I have never known it any other way.
You all seem so empowered on here, I need to find some strength I know.
I go to work all week and I come home and cook and clean and that’s how it’s always been.
I come across to outsiders as if I’m strong but that is so far from the truth.
I feel like screaming, I know it must be frustrating for you, as the answer is so clear and I can see that I just can’t do it.x

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It’s so hard, I am so scared of him and I just feel like I am going to turn everyone’s world upside down. He is a scary person, He thinks he’s above everything,I think he is a narcissist. I just think he would ruin me ???

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Sorry I meant to say there has been no physical violence for 8 years prior to the other day

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Hi, im new on here. I posted once before on a dark day.
I turned ( detail removed by moderator) a few days ago and have been with the same man for over (detail removed by moderator). I decide to meet a friend as we share our birthdays,
I was gone out of the house for 2.5 hours(we went for a shandy)when I came back he was really angry and calling me all sorts of names. It ended in him dragging me out of the house by my hair.
I am so low, I have been with this man all my adult life, he hasn’t physically abused me for around (detail removed by moderator), the mental abuse is almost daily.
I am lost in what to do ? He is still in the house and I doubt he has no intention to leave. We have to daughters that are passed their teens, both live at home and they love there dad as much as me. I love my girls and I couldn’t leave them…. I just don’t know what to do ? Please help xxx

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Hi, this is the first time I have posted on here.
I have been in the relationship for (detail removed by moderator) years, since I was (detail removed by moderator), he is all I’ve ever known.
We have 2 children together who are both passed their teenage years but still live at home.
I feel so empty and really don’t know where to start……
I know I am in a domestic abuse relationship, I am really good most of the time of dealing with it, I’ve had so much practice, but some days it gets too much and I don’t know where to turn. I feel trapped, weak and pathetic

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