Women’s aid refer me to outside support and victim support can’t assist. I have a marker on my home, he doesn’t see my distress, I keep myself smart and tidy, and buoyant on the outside, Ive had no contact for (detail removed by moderator) now, his only feed back is from police, who ask him about things, he says no not me, and so he leaves, I’ve suggested they are a tool for him, and that they don,t talk to him without first having solid proof, he’s got them thinking he’s a victim of me too, by creating evidence against me. He won’t give up ever, he won’t move on, he has a relationship. I’ve not used social media for years. I cope by accepting this rather than by fearing it, I accept my fate and that helps me be okay, but it become harder since the police involvement against me, when they can’t help me. I’ve had high police involvement for (detail removed by moderator). Thank you for your reply, you’ve given me hope to wait for his slip up.