Prettyflowers

[Prettyflowers]

Please please please know you will get there, at the time this seems like this will never end, this will, I have been through the exact same thing please contact me if you need support, you never think you will get through the other side but as long as you are strong enough this will seem like a distant memory before you know it xx

[Prettyflowers]

Hey girls, just wanted to say a huge thank you for all of the support you have given me it was literally invaluable to me getting over my situation. I think the moral support combined with an actual realistic outlook in life helped me, the person I am now with who is someone I do actually love, not like I thought I did before, it has taken me so long literally (detail removed by moderator) to even get myself to accept him. I just want to tell you that there is a way out and you will feel better and happy one day, I used to feel like depression and death was my only way out, I now feel like no matter the situation it will get better, I’m in love , good times with my family and are seriously planning my future. Good times are due for us all but please just hold out, I personally couldn’t have without this amazing forum xx

[Prettyflowers]

Hiya,

I just want to say I know exactly how you feel. But honestly for yourself don’t do it, things will never change and will always go back to how they were wether it’s days weeks or months. I know how hard it is it’s so difficult but by talking to him you are only hurting yourself in the long run. I feel I would have been free from my ex a long time ago if I knew what I knew now and that’s that things only get worse. I’ve been in this down place for so long because I haven’t allowed myself long enough without being in some sort of contact and every time I went months I seemed to talk to him again and now I’m in the worst position I’ve been in it has totally taken over my life.

You’ll have days you miss him and crave him but you know he isn’t right for you and there is a reason for that no matter how much you love him, someone will come along that’s right for you you don’t need an abuser xx

[Prettyflowers]

Thank you for both getting back to me I really appreciate it. I am going no contact but I still haven’t been able to get over it, I genuinely feel so depressed and don’t know if this is normal to feel this way. I feel like I am being silly as there are a lot worse things happening to people so not sure if I’m overreacting but I cannot get rid of this horrible empty feeling, it’s not even the fact I’m crying that I miss him anymore I think it’s because deep down I do love him and just want this whole thing to be over. He is avoiding the police and they’ve said I may have to face him in court at some point , which I physically feel I cannot do I’d rather it just be over and be able to move on but I can’t anytime soon. Thank you again x

[Prettyflowers]

I am in the exact same position. It’s so hard to just not go running back. I personally just remind myself of how I felt when I was with him and how down I was, and although I’m not in the best of places at the moment I’m in a much better place than I was when I was with him half the time. If you keep on going back you are never giving yourself a chance of true happiness

[Prettyflowers]

Thank you Lisa. I have enquired into the freedom programme and also counselling, although I feel better already I still feel i will need this. Thank you for your support I really appreciate it x

[Prettyflowers]

Thank you so much for your reply. It is so true the day you break up and the day you go no contact. He keeps contacting me and I have blocked all means of communication but he does still keep making new emails to get through to me. I feel a lot better than I did a few weeks ago but know I’m going to have my up and down days xx

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