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    • #82880
      ScrewedOverBigtime
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      TOBFREE
      I too am going through what you are going through and to make matters worse I finally snapped (detail removed by moderator) and abused my ex and his new gf by text,I’m now angry at myself as I’ve worked hard for months to not do this. Unfortunately me and alcohol dont mix…he has smeared my name to everyone and we live in a town where everyone knows everyone and hes decided to get with a former friend (detail removed by moderator) so he can basically watch my every move I feel noone gets it and feel I’m losing my mind you are not alone I know its his shit not mine but always get those moments of doubt because of his messed up mind games. Sending live and thought stay strong x

      • #82882
        ScrewedOverBigtime
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        TOBFREE Sorry I need to add I eventually managed to leave but he still managed to continue the abuse (detail removed by moderator) years later because we have a child together….I may of well been with him the last (detail removed by moderator) years cos somehow I still managed to let him continue his abuse until now!!!!
        One thing he always used and still tries to is fear …not necessarily of him physically hurting you but the damage they do mentally emotionally while making put there the victim and were the crazy ones…x

    • #82870
      ScrewedOverBigtime
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      I totally feel your pain here! I have recently endured abuse and threats via text ,that didn’t work so he started a smear campaign while still pretending to have our sons best interest at heart and all of this his calculated build up to his telling me of his new relationship with a former friend which is just wrong for too many reasons to explain I now know this to be ‘triangulation ‘ as I finished the relationship over (detail removed by moderator)  years ago but have to co parent our (detail removed by moderator) year old who just happens to be severely autistic and non verbal so my life is difficult enough . Noone is listening to me I gave had enough that I’m now reacting badly and messing it all up myself🤬

    • #82841
      ScrewedOverBigtime
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      Ohh this hasn’t filled me with much confidence,I’m now going through family court with a very toxic man we are only on first hearing….I messed up (detail removed by moderator) by getting drunk and sending messages I’ve just had enough my son is severely autistic I literally had enough and could pack my bags and leave town with my boys…

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