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Well I’ve finally spoken to helpline bit scared now about the options seems so harsh and feel guilty as I told them of some of the things that have been happening and his legal access to weapons (which have never been a threat at all) also where my son witnessed an incident not physical to me but they said there was a safeguarding issue maybe now I’m worried and scared that it will all come back on me and my son is removed feeling very unsure of everything x

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Thanks sunshinerainflower, so right now I’m just agreeing to us being together to keep the peace while I get myself sorted, I can’t get through to speak to anyone on the helpline they must be busy.

I’m dreading this week as it’s (detail removed by Moderator) which I obviously don’t want to celebrate but he keeps asking me what we’re gonna do but to be honest we’ve never done anything before so don’t understand why he wants too now

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Thank you kip and relieved for your reply, I know that everything he’s put me through is the cause of my depression, I’ve not had chance yet to ring the helpline but I’m planning on it tomorrow, seems I’ve got a lot of reading to do and didn’t realise there was so much information out there thanks for your support x

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That makes me smile reading your post for going on your own oh how I long to be able to make decisions for myself well done hun xx

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Thanks kip, it was just an option I thought might work rather than the sudden move for me and my son but hey it was worth a try x

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Thanks kip, your so right I’ve been made to feel guilty today for doing the housework and asked me if he’d upset me as I didn’t seem very happy just felt like he was trying to start an argument xx

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I am so relieved that I’ve had a reply and am so grateful for your help, I will look up the information you’ve given me as you say knowledge is strength and my god do I need some strength right now, I’m making steps towards me leaving with my son and it means so much to know I have the support of people who have been there and to see how you’ve survived thank you very grateful xx

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TThank you for your reply iamfree and for reading my post, it gives me the confidence to sspeak to someone now, I’ve never felt so low and unhappy ever but am starting to see how to change things x

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