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    • #12525
      Tto3
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      Reading though this as feeling at a complete loss. I can’t believe how the family court are allowed to continue to conduct. He is taking me back again after a period of months break. I can’t believe it’s allowed. Dammed if I do and dammed if I don’t.

    • #8407
      Tto3
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      Nor82 hi. I really really wouldn’t let him in. I did let this happen the police supervised him and were great with me. I thought I had emtied the property of everything important. But not of everything personal which I have now lost forever! You are bound to forget something or not even think of something till its gone. It’s just a game to them he took nothing much of his at all. I will regret this forever. Get a list of what he wants leave it outside for a time period for someone to collect so there is no contact with you arrange via email stay reasonable and keep a paper trail. Xxx

    • #8392
      Tto3
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      Hi I have done the freedom program. I found it hard at times and it made me aware of a lot more abuse I had made my normal. Just as important as the information where the people I met. Because it brought up stuff I blocked out of i did end up having some counselling and some CBT. It was very tough at the times but I am now so pleased I did it. When he does stuff now I identify o that’s the charmer o here is the bully etc it helps me cope. He is what he is and will never change it helps me box if off and cope. I think it was quite cathartic in a way
      Go for it I say.

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