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Hey.. I just wont first of all to send you a big virtual hug.. Abusers will always make out its your fault and stonewall gaslight you till you ever think your going mad or there tell you that your going mad its all part of there plot (iv been in a abusive marriage now for over 10 years and only in the last year or two have i realised in fact he’s abusing me and when the time is write im leaving him for good as im worth better then this and so are you) I think its a great idear to go see the doctor if he asks just say its for a yearly health check up.. Speak to her about your concerns and be as open as you can.. As for the shouting and banging and name calling i know this well don’t let it get to you as this is what he wonts it to do.. I switch off and think of a paradise beach somewhere hot lead on a sunbed in a bikini on my own with a cocktail when my hb soon stops when he realises he’s not getting a reaction he moves onto anothet tactic normally the silence treatment or banging stuff down like a stroppy child that cant get they way there try every tactic in the book.. Its knowing these red flags that i think has deffently made me stronger in some way and helped me come to terms with actually what im going though is abuse and and realise that he will never change they never do change.. Seek as much help as you can doctor a close friends domestic abuse helpline your not alone we are all hear for you

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Hey… I have to agree with the above comment please dont sigh anythink and get far away from this man as possible.. Hes controlling abusive and hes dam right rude hes got no respect for you or your child.. You should be able to go were you like m
I can tell you from my own experiance hes trying to control you and also cut off your support network meaning your end up being dependent on him and thats what he wonts… Pritry much bow down to what he wonts… The get as much legal advice as you can.
. You can do this keep your head held high and stay positive youv got this…

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Hey beutaful lady.. Im in the same situation as yourself.. Currently with h but confused on do i stay or do i go as i also have a child also.. I cant advices what to do as iv not managed to get away yet but all i know all there is some amaxing comments above and even though im vnew to this forum iv found it so so helpful and i know soon me and my child will be free from this abuse… Think postive stay strong

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Im lucky if i get a break away oncebor twice a year since are child has come along.. Im hoping time away will give me more strength.. I reallly dont wont to leave are son.. I know hes the childs dad

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Hi thank you for your reply.. Luckle h leaves for work before i leave so i have to drop child off at school then go… I have charge and chargers on me.. And i have been in contact..

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