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Thank you KIP. It’s such a minefield! I will ring Rights for women, hadn’t thought of them. Thank you!

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Unbelievably contact is 50:50… I’ve emailed him today asking if he is open to discussion on this either through a mediator or solicitors. I’m pretty certain I know the answer already though 😕

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That’s great news FS… my abuser has started again recently, harassing and trying to cause problems but the police have been amazing this time round.
It’s such a long process to really be free from them but it is so worth it x

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It’s so amazing to read that the children are home and loving it. I bet you are so so proud and what an amazing achievement it is that you have done this for you and them! Well done.
Happy times are here to stay xx

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Rachel Platten – Fight song
“This is my fight song, take back my life song, prove I’m alright song”

“I don’t care if no one else believes, I’ve still got a lot of fight left in me”

Love this thread!! 😊

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Sometimes it feels like you are the only on in the world struggling with all of this, I almost feel penalised because I have a job. It’s because of that that I am finding it a battle to get any assistance with finance or housing. I would be okay if I didn’t have debts or legal fee’s and the only reason I have those is because of him.
It makes me sad knowing others are struggling in the same way as me… it’s an awful position to be in 😯
I hope you are both otherwise well confused & serenity x
Big hugs to you

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Thanks everyone! It’s been such a long journey, and I couldn’t have done it alone… I still have a long way to go, so many years of misery to unpick and find a way to put myself back together but I’m getting there!
I still have to see him at family court and we are waiting for cafcass to finish their report on where the children should stay… it’s so difficult and he still does silly things to show he is in control but he is slowly running of steam.
Hugs to you all xxx

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Confused, it’s been a while since I have been able to post too! Reading you post here you have come so far and should feel so proud of what you have achieved!
I am in the thick of things here with this week being key for many reasons.
you know you have made the right decision, and I hope all your family, friends are being supportive for you.
take care and sending you a big hug x

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Serenity, thank you! It made me smile reading your posts and I had watched star wars recently too, I must have been in a total daze as I missed it at the time but thinking back I can see exactly what you mean! Fingers crossed I can be that strong this week
Take care x

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I’ve recently finished the program, it was really difficult and the reality of the lengths he’d gone to in order to have control was very hurtful. It is clear that had I not done it or had the support from ladies on here I would have been back in the terrible situation i left and may not be here to see this year at all. I made some great friends and learned so much!
It is hard, it’s an emotional roller coaster but it’s so worth it in the end.

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Thanks, I hope things go well for you, once this week is done I’ll hopefully be able to start moving on x

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