Bobocel-blossom

[Bobocel-blossom]

Thank you Kitkat ,i ve done all those and no help …i am seriously thinking there is no hope.If we do not agree on sum division i would be signing my house off and receive no money to re -edit life.Family abroad are desperate…they worry about my children,about me.We can not even afford to go abroad to them.We are stuck.

[Bobocel-blossom]

Hi ,blue eyes .This happened to me within cooking breakfast routine ,with a sort of (detail removed by moderator) we lived together.Be observant what is next “light”thing…take care.

 

[Bobocel-blossom]

Hi there ,considering what is happening at moment with my life how much my health had declined because of him… I remember long time ago when he tried to grab me to stop me running away he was sec away from being hit by a (detail removed by moderator).Almost.I feel somehow low to think that but also all my family abroad whish that he was hit by the (detail removed by moderator).

 

[Bobocel-blossom]

Hi honey,you are not lost and not broken.You are in my opinion a survivor and sooo much stronger than i was long time ago.I was tricked to return to him while he was “interneting “ways to crush me!he used despicable devaluation and many lies and false promisses but i blocked him eventually and got my mind a break from torture,i let the solicitors handle it and started focusing on my kids ,start eating,running,yoga,slept better,quit sugar stuff etc to be healthy for them as they deserve a healthy clean mind and body mother.In many ways you are a hero even know you can not see it yet.If focused on real yourself finding the way to You, honey,you’ll never go wrong this way.

[Bobocel-blossom]

Hi there brave one.Workinprogress you are brave and smart for going out of it.I done the same and i will find my way somehow.These amazing people on W.Aid are like many Lighthouses pointing to us the way home,home to the Real Light within ,the one that you have as well.He tried to bring dark clouds over your wonderful rays but it does not work as this temporary derail only will make you stronger.You always been the good,the truth ,the enduring one,the strong one.

[Bobocel-blossom]

thank you ,for the advice is useful i will talk to them if needed.My sons are not his and are (detail, removed by moderator),and i did already come in /out with them twice since then with many months gap.He is not likely to sign to split money half and he is indicating that,my solicitor from legal aid sort of know these tricks.Is the threat to homeless for me and kids after sale is done and money been frozen that scares me so much.

[Bobocel-blossom]

Thank you KIP,so helpful and i ‘ve done that “gloves out “recently but i need more funding from Legal Aid to make him present financial disclosure.By a lucky/unlucky coincidence i heard he lives many hours away from us and living “very prety”all taken care of by his siblings,even started working from home.Correct:from him no hurry to bring justice anyway.I hope that will change.I was served a light sort of injunction of communication last (detail removed by moderator) but he withdraw it,then he was on discredid-campaign towards me- a few people were confused as they are aware of marriage struggles and like me and my boys a lot.

[Bobocel-blossom]

Thank you for your messages,a few more details:my best friend from E.Europe has seen this happening and she said he is trying to put pressure to intimidate me to sign whatever he wants. I obtained Legal Aid and fighting all these (detail removed by moderator) but he will not agree with divorce or show financial disclosure,or communicate with my solicitor.
About the money for house deposit come from his pension that he drew out and as i never was allowed to work (morbid jealousy,threats on my life )he paid the mortgage from his phone -with his account.At CAB a lady told me that i would seriously weaken my position to receive help from government(about EU settlem.and Univ.Credit acces)if i was to divorce him!i was shocked.What to do… i have nothing,he took everything.How can i raise my kids if a judge will not split half /half but towards his favour?!that would finish us 3.

 

 

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