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Thank you.
I have been advised against any further legal action.
I have no proof of abuse. Its my work against his.

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Social work won’t intervene because she is with her Dad.
She only wanted to be with her Dad for a few hours… how come is now (detail removed by Moderator) hours later?? Why the change of heart? Thanks why I’m concerned! Why couldn’t I talk to her?

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Thanks!

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Sorry I’ve just seen this. I earn £(detail removed by Moderator). What stops me from Legal Aid, Universal Credit and advice from Christians against poverty is that I share ownership of a Timeshare. Because the timeshare is like a second mortgage its seen as a second home. It’s that that is preventing financial help. I can’t give it away, no one wants Timeshares. It’s in joint names its part of our settlement.

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Thank you for your comments.
I’m now at the there is nothing left to save stage.
His behaviour won’t change, its all about him. My mental health has paid too high a price in this relationship. He has exhausted me. I feel relief to not have contact with him.

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Hi,
Because I have responded to some of My Ex’s messages he is saying that I’m harassing him.
He has threatened suicide so many times now I wasn’t as alarmed as the police were reading his messages.
I just don’t know if I just want to leave things with the police for now and enjoy a bit of peace. I think I’ll wait for the next event.
Thanks for your help.
I’m talking to a domestic abuse advisor tomorrow.

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Thank You,
We agreed that I am not going to have contact with my ex. The police were going to speak to him about this. I haven’t heard how it went, but I’m relieved for some peace right now.
Should I just be happy that the police have done this for me?
I have blocked my ex and his family.

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Dear Headspinning,
I see some real similarities with you…I have left my ex though.
I feel guilty that he no longer has access to his home and kids and people are gossiping about him. I often wonder if I brought this on him unfairly? I think it’s because people are listening to me for the first time in years! I give him an inch and he takes a mile… then we are back to square one. He is not willing to accept responsibility for his actions and the reason we are in the poistion we are in.
Thanks so much for writing so that I know you understand too!

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Thank you!

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