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My partner drinks most days, but he doesn’t feel he has an issue… he just enjoys a drink in his eyes, its social, its how he relaxes….

I’m terrified of him when hes been drinking heavily because I don’t know what mood he will be in, I am also livid about how much money he wastes smoking, drinking, using drugs! (then has the cheek to say he is concerned about my health…)

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Thanks to everyone who replied, I’ve not used the site very often but I appreciate your comments. I’m trying to muster the energy needed to chuck my partner out and move on with life but oh boy is it difficult x

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I’ve been seeing a counsellor for over (detail removed by moderator), not once has my husband asked anything about it. I said to my counsellor once, do you think he realises I talk about him in sessions.

It’s so odd, he asks nothing about me, not even how is my day most of the time.

I feel very alone and I’m sorry you are in a similar situation

 

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the “how he won’t cope without me” comment really got me… how do you leave someone when you have been made to feel so responsible for them!

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