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    • #8147
      Finkle
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      Thank you for the responses. I’m not going to go back. I thought that maybe he was trying to change, but he just told me to get over him threatening me because it was just words and he’s gotten over it so I’m just jepordizing our future. I’m glad I’m jepordizing our future because I don’t want a future with someone like him

    • #7921
      Finkle
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      Sorry, is it worth staying*

    • #7865
      Finkle
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      My sister thinks that I should leave him, she is happy to support me through everything and says that she will never kick me out if I need to be here. She wants me to think as if it was someone else. What would I want them to do?

      I’ve always had anxiety as I have aspergers which is a high functioning form of autism. I’ve learnt over the years how to cope, but I spend most of my time at home, praying for a good day. Hoping that friends will stay longer so that I don’t have to be alone with him. I (detail removed by moderator) and on my first shift ending, the first thought that crossed my mind was that I didn’t want to go home.

    • #7853
      Finkle
      Participant

      I feel really unsure today… there are so many things that I feel might be abusive, but I doubt myself so much. I find a lot of support here though and it’s helping me to stay strong

    • #7816
      Finkle
      Participant

      Thank you all for your responses. I have managed to get out for a few days and I’m staying at my sisters. I’m trying hard to stay strong, but I feel more guilty than anything. I hate people being hurt and he’s being so distant and upset. I feel like it’s all my fault and I don’t know how to do this. How did I manage to get married before I realised anything

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