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I would of said I had no friends either (or very few) but I joined Facebook and connected with people I haven’t seen in over 20 years. They were glad to hear from me and I’ve been out for walks, dinner, coffees etc…. After being convinced for so many years I was difficult to like I’m realising day by day that is not true. My advice, reach out you may be pleasantly surprised. Good luck and enjoy your new found freedom ❤️

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Just ordered this book on amazon BTW. I seems like a book I just read ASAP

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I am going through a very similar scenario. My ex first tried to manipulate our teenager, she’s smart and is happy he’s gone so it didn’t work, he tried to get her to sneak away to visit with him, told her I was pretending to be afraid and that the ‘truth’ would come out (detail removed by Moderator). Long story short she didn’t fall for his nonsense. Now he’s moved on to our younger boy, he’s calling me bad names, asking him to pass on messages. He told his sister he was afraid so she confronted her dad in the car on (detail removed by Moderator) visit. He then launched into a psychotic rage, driving frantically and really scared them both. My clever girl recorded the incident on her tablet. I alled the police and got the kids removed. I’ll be contacting my solicitor tomorrow to stop all contact. This is just the post I needed to read tonight, it could practically be my journal.

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I’m feeling really anxious about this decision even though I know it is the right thing to do. My locks are changed, I’ve bought new padlocks for my gate out back and my address is red flagged with the police. I can’t believe this is my life!! It is certainly better than the alternative, which is still living with him. I have a journal which is so helpful, show his crazy erratic behaviour. Thank you.

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Keisha: praying
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Hi all, I am new here and reading these posts it is exactly what I am going through at the moment. My ex was arrested from our home and I now have a non molestation order against him. He is running around telling anyone that will listen that I am a liar and keeping him from seeing his kids. He was constantly ringing and video calling the children but I know it was simply so I would feel intimidated. They have both now blocked him on all devices. He even told our daughter he was going to get the police to question her, this would not be a good move for him but he’s trying to frighten us any way he can. It seems these men are masters of their craft and don’t care who gets hurt in the process. Stay strong.

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Thank you for listening, it’s good to know I’m not alone. There are still some things I keep to myself. I feel like this forum is somewhere I can share without judgement. It’s been so inspiring.

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At the moment he’s just got them for (detail removed by moderator) hours on apee week so really time limited, I’m hoping this will limit the potential damage. Solicitor is now working on formalising calls but as you say I will now be waiting for the next move. Feels like an unending battle but I will continue to battle on. Its worth it to have some peace at home finally. Thank you it has helped to talk.

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The non molestation order only protects me. Its been in place for a number of weeks and therein the calls to the children have increased. I’ve set time limits etc and the older girl blocks his number intermittently. If I could choose for them to never see him again that would be my choice but I don’t think that is really an option. I have contacted my solicitor today to ask for set times for the calls inorder to take back control. I only hope that with limited contact and the wisdom of age my son will realise the kind of man his dad truly is, our daughter certainly does.

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I love the idea of a journal. Thank. You

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I already have an non molestation order in place.my older child knows some of what’s going on I’m still trying to protect her, the younger boy idolises his dad as he’s now getting so much attention from him. I’m reluctant to block calls completely as this would be upsetting and he know that, although the WiFi has been shut down on a few occasions. I hate that he is using the children to continue his abuse.

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