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Hi IWMB,Thankyou so much for your reply,good to have a voice of reason and practical,useful advice.I am at a friends and staying here as long as I need.Hopefully in this environment I can see through the “fog” (which I will look up,Thankyou) and make positive steps forward.Shall keep in touch with progress,Thankyou again for your lovely reply.Hope you are doing well in your situation.Love nomorenonsense xxx

[Nomorenonsense]

There’s a personal finances course my church runs which is national https://capuk.org/i-want-help/courses/cap-money-course/introduction
May be a fab idea for you, social, approachable and helpful too x

[Nomorenonsense]

Thankyou for your replies. I’m only just tonight pulling myself out of a depression that has lasted since (removed by moderator) Contact. Two days of doing bare minimum and feeling like utter crap. Alongside the week of anxiety,fear and tearfulness leading up to seeing him.

You’re right about keeping up zero contact. I will speak to my neighbour about being there for handovers. It’s a big ask of someone though isn’t it? And I also worry about him turning them against me or telling lies about me during handover.

Good advice re gp, it pays to have things documented certainly. I’ll book in tomorrow. Good to be talking about it again with people that truly understand! Thanks again x

[Nomorenonsense]

I salute you bubblegum on Father’s Day! Today is a day to celebrate and cherish for as a single mother you are both mum AND dad to your children. That is a huge achievement and you deserve praise and recognition. He’s blown his chance at parenthood and left you to pick up the peices. Well done you for rising to that challenge. Your babies are very lucky xxx

[Nomorenonsense]

Good lord, what motivates these people??? I’m so sorry for your experience. I hope tonight has been ok. Go to HR and your manager as soon as you arrive at work in the morning, explain everything and make it clear you need to be as far away from your attacker as possible. They will understand. Most likely they will be horrified at what has happened. Keep your chin up, it’s the sweetest revenge to put a smile on your face despite the misery people try to dish out. Big hugs xxx

[Nomorenonsense]

hi,thanks for reply,no not been to counselling.It seems so bizarre even saying it out loud here on the forum.I knew it was an unhealthy relationship but I honestly didn’t title his behaviour as abusive until the split.I felt bad for him and his low confidence.
Where did you source your counsellor?Hope things are brighter Now Xx

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