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You are not responsible for him and his actions, he will have to learn he can’t rely on you when you walk away. I know you are scared right now but you will find the strength to leave eventually. Get a support network around you , family , friends and other services available. If he does do anything to your family report it , even the threats. Cover your own back and if the worst case happens there is a log of what’s been happening.

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I’m glad you managed to get out today ! I read your earlier post about not managing to leave. Stay strong 💗

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The appointment is the initial appointment to get a support worker. I am waiting to see what she says about the police so I know if I’ve got her there they will take it more seriously. My mum is now coming with me also to the appointment so discuss support and plans that can be put in place.The abuse from him is mainly emotional , verbal and sexual so I’ve not got any physical abuse to report.

I know as soon as the police get involved he will turn more nasty, he hates the police and they trigger him because of his past. He has already been in court with his child (physical assault) and still somehow got away with it. I need to find out if I can just move away out of area to protect baby from him.

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I’ve got a rough idea of how he operates and this time I know what to look out for. I’m going to be talking to my midwife when I see her next time and discuss how I can stop him being at the hospital when I give birth. I’ve been keeping all the messages he sends me and I will take them to the police if he continues. I want to avoid using the police as I’m under enough stress right now and I won’t cope with added stress. I’m just worried about how he will react when she is born.

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