Survivingnotthriving

[Survivingnotthriving]

I am so sorry to hear how much you are struggling with this. I found giving my initial statement really overwhelming and the prospect of appearing in court terrifies me too. However I am not prepared to let this person get away with terracing me potentially for the rest of my life. You deserve to be heard. Have you ever kept a diary or a log of the various incidents? Or do you have messages, emails, anything to back up how you’re feeling? I’ve been advised that this sort of thing is really helpful. You are so strong for contacting the police in the first place. Please remember that! It takes serious courage. I’m sure you can find that strength and courage to continue your fight x

[Survivingnotthriving]

Hang in there. I feel the same at the moment. I find it so hard to get out of bed and face the day. Try to make a list and cover the basics like eat a piece of toast, drink a cup of tea, brush teeth. It sounds silly but I find it helps me feel like I’ve managed to do something at least. You are not alone x

[Survivingnotthriving]

This isn’t trivial at all. It’s emotionally and financially manipulative which is domestic abuse. Please don’t feel alone. I was with my ex for (detail removed by Moderator) who was also very emotionally and financially controlling which sometimes could be seen as nice to others! It’s a horrible situation and one that not many people can understand as the perception is often that domestic abuse is physical violence. Keep strong and try to get some advise, keep a diary etc xx

[Survivingnotthriving]

I feel like this too. Am waiting to hear from the police about my ex partners arrest. I have so much anxiety and wonder when this will ever go away
Right now it feels so overwhelming.

[Survivingnotthriving]

Thank you x

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