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Oh tired and drained I’m so sorry to hear that, have you looked into refuges?
I would but I can leave my pet.

Sounds like you may need to go no contact if you leave.
I have done the freedom program that helps. Sending you strength like you said we are stronger than we think !

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Oh tired and drained I’m so sorry to hear that, have you looked into refuges?
I would but I can leave my pet.

Sounds like you may need to go no contact if you leave.
I have done the freedom program that helps. Sending you strength like you said we are stronger than we think !

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Hi Mellow, I’m sorry you have had this as well.
It’s very tough when you feel so down to find the strength to be more independent.
I read a book called Women who love too much – this helps so much and recommend a lot.

Yes my mum heard him shouting abuse on the phone told me it was private and put phone down
Strange.

Thank you for your reply

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Thank you for all your replies gosh it really helps so much to not feel alone! Sending hugs & strength to all of you too

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Thank you very much for your reply Lisa I have finally found some help.
Thank you

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Thank you so much for your reply, I think they gas light us into self blame, so that validation has helped so much so thank you.
I have recently been given some great helpful information fingers crossed.
Well done for leaving! All the best to you too

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Thank you so much, he is currently under going tests for a severe illness.
I hope he is ok obviously but wow that will be more guilt as well , obviously I don’t wish I’ll health on anyone

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Sorry for late reply I do so appreciate this, yes i definitely do it’s been a very sad realisation.

It’s hard also as my sister and her are so close it makes me feel I am crazy.

My mum is the opposite of a feminist, it’s very confusing.
Her father was quite nasty with her , I think controlling to her mum I don’t know to what extent.

A close relative has left her alcoholic husband last week, all my mum said was how sorry she felt for her husband being all alone!

She seems to put men above women completely.

She is older now I dont want to judge I love her so much but she is still sending letters on my behalf I believe.

I am scared to tackle it as my father will back her and it will be terrible arguments.
Not physical just arguing.

I am struggling to afford an accountant hence why my mum is making me use hers.

The financial climate makes you feel more trapped than ever!

Thank you for your supportive words.

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Thank you for the support

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Thank you , logically I know it makes sense but my heart is struggling and sense of guilt is stopping me.

Thanks

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Hello
Yes I do look after myself thank you for the kind comments, I am having lots of Councelling I think my they may be intrusive thoughts about bombs etc Iv had lots of bad nightmares about war over the years.
It’s just the hurdle of actually leaving us t it.
It feels like a huge wall I need to get over.
Thank you I hope you are all alright too

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Thank you for your kind comments, I’m realky trying not to let war anxiety and financial worries stop me ❤️
Thank you so much for the support and not hypocrites I hope we all find the strength to lead happy lives 🙏

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Thank you so much good advice I’m grateful

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